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He has been with someone else for 5 years but said his feelings for me won't ever go away - how do I get him back?

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Question - (19 April 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Help! I want to be back with the love of my life, He's in a relationship but told me his feelings for me will never go away.

Well I'm not the nicest of people and a few years back i got into some serious trouble. A friend, i'll call him 'IK', never judged me and we became close then soon after we became a couple. I loved him so much but couldnt' change who i was. I became possesive and couldnt help but argue with him because all I've ever done since being a child is fight my way to the top. He broke down one day telling me he loved me but couldnt take anymore. We stayed close friends though, only a year later he was with someone else. Their still together nearly five years later but i still love 'IK' and recently he told me his feelings for me will never go away. I love him so much and hate myself just as much but i want him back so badly, any advise?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007):

yes steer clear its not fair to try and "steal" someone elses man. You had your chance now he has moved on and things are better off just left in the past. get over it and move on

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