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female
age
30-35,
*graf2
writes:I am 19 years old and have been dating a 20 year old for six months now. Yesterday was actually our six months and I found out he had been texting his ex girlfriend. the texts were heartbreaking and strictly sexual. she told me he only texts here when college is not in session, meaning they've been talking all summer and hes been lying to me. He has never made me feel i cannot trust him until now. I confronted him about it and he lied and lied and lied then finally told me half the truth, that he had been having sexual dreams about her and asked her about them. I dont understand why he would say he loves me and then try to hook up with her when i'm not around for a long period of time. i mean.. im your girlfriend, talk about sex with me! he says he loves me and really wants to change, because he has cheated on a girlfriend before and is finding it hard to change during the summers. I honestly dont know what to believe and am so hurt i believed he would never cheat on me. even though he didnt actually succeed it still hurts that he tried. Im afraid he is using me to get over her. I need help
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (15 July 2011):
 Well now. He has lied to you about contacting his ex; when you confront him he says he loves you and really wants to change (as an old song goes: "And the band played 'Tell Me Another One, do'"). Sure he wants to change, yeah, right.
To put it another way, if he wants to change then he should just DO so, not tell you he WANTS TO.
You can best help yourself by giving him the boot.......but I do know how hurt and upsetting this is for you.
You do indeed deserve a better bf than him.
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female
reader, Denise32 +, writes (15 July 2011):
Well now. He has lied to you about contacting his ex; when you confront him he says he loves you and really wants to change (and as an old saying goes: "And the band played 'Tell Me Another One, do'"). Sure he wants to change, yeah, right.
To put it another way, if he wants to change then he should just DO
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): This guy doesnt sound like hes worth the hassle ...dump him.. you can get someone better.
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