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writes: Please help. I'm going with a guy for 11 weeks. He has had a reputation in the past treating girls bad. He is going out with a girl for 3 years and is now going with me but he tells me he really likes me. I'm different! "One in a million". I'm wary though, because iI have been hurt in the past! Don't know who to listen to: the people telling me stuff or believe him? He cannot say or do anything else for me to trust him more. Do I follow my heart or head? Keep falling and risk hurt for love? Or leave right now and get hurt anyway because I never gave it a try? I really like him :s??? Reply to this Question
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reader, lulu-love +, writes (21 November 2005):
You're asking yourself all the right questions, but i bet they're making your head spin like its in the washing machine.
Peoples reputations do tend to stick and no matter what you do you can't shake a reputation. But the thing is - peoples reputations may no longer be true...you have to get to know him first, find out more about him from him..make your judgements on him.
You may feel it will be more sensible to walk away...but lifes there to be lived and it gives you a chance to try everything once. You have to think if he hurts you..will you get over it? are you willing to make that risk! I'm afraid i can't make that decision for you - i can only guide you.
Good Luck
lulu x
p.s. one more question...will you be able to deal with the reputation of dating a bad boy?
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