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*mma_gurl
writes:I need help! My partner and I have been together for nearly 5 years and we have a beautiful 2yr old son together. But lately things haven't been right. Recently he has made a new girl friend, I don't mind usually but this time I feel different about it. I know I shouldn't have, but I went through his phonebook and found her number but when I asked him about it he lied and said it was someone else even thogh I know h its a lie. Now he keeps texting her and sending her kisses when he doesn't even send me kisses! I feel so rejected, used and unwanted! Is there anyway I can get him to want me and not her? Please I need help! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2011): Yes my husband of six years uses the 3 now online with others. Never used it,with me since dsting. Spends all his time online with younger people and yells @ me & defensive when I confronted him. I know exactlty how you feel rejected and alone and scared. I wish i had advice but I guess just letting you know you aren't the only one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2011): It sounds like hes emotionally involved with this other girl. Who knows the reasons, or whether there is more than just kisses over text message.
The fact he is sending them though is creating alarm bells for me.
Tell him outright that you have seen the messages and you don't want him to deny anything. Ask him to explain what is going on for him. When youve heard his story, work out what will be best for your relationship and your child. All the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2011): I think you need to figure out what is going wrong in your relationship. Are you still be a great girlfriend? Do you nag and complain a lot? Sit and think about that because that can push your man away quick! Especially if she is calm and fun. Do you guys still have fun together? I would not tell him I went through his phone!!!! But you can mention that you are feeling insecure about his friendship with her. Oh yea..and be sure you are not smothering him. Have more fun together and be sure to live your life with friends and family too. Hope this helped
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 Am afraid there is no way of making him show you the attention that he is showing her. You need to sit him down and tell him what you have saw, apologise for snooping but tell him what you found and explain to him how it makes you feel. Ask him calmly is he happy with you or does he want someone else. Allow him the chance to explain.
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