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writes: i am 24 with 3 young children and divorced. i go out with freinds on saturday nights. there i met this guy i think he is so sweet. he told me he had a girl friend the first time i seen him which i think is true. the second time i met him he told me that he likes me and that he thinks i am the nicest person he have ever met he said to me that if he did not have a girfriend that he would like to be with me. i am not very confident about myself as i am very over weight so i think he was saying to be nice. but what would you say about it??? also if he is not lying how would i win him over and make him want to be with me???
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reader, Herr Professor +, writes (14 September 2006):
 I don't think he was saying it to be nice. He said it because it's probably true. It breaks my heart when wonderful people have low self-esteem because of their weight. I assure you, I know plenty of guys who love plus size girls. If you're a nice person and feel good about yourself, there are men out there who love you for you, regardless of your weight. I'm firm believer that there's someone for every person in this world.
What you do NOT want to do is try to "win over" someone and "make them want to be with" you when he is already in a relationship with someone else. That will only end in heartache for everyone involved. Continue to go out as much as you can, be yourself, and look for a single guys only. Give it time, and you'll find the dude for you!
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reader, Allsorts54 +, writes (14 September 2006):
You dont need to win him over because he told you he has a girlfriend.What you need is confidence.If you dont love yourselfe nobody will.You have been through a lot with a devorce and kids to look after you are bound to loose your confidence.So dont hurry to get into a new relationship get yourself sorted first.
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