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writes:A few years ago i fell for this guy who is my friend and i love him. He is a year older and for a while i thought he liked me too. He started to ignore me when he found out i liked him and in May my friend * Hannah sorted things out between us. A few weeks ago my friend * Jay found out from his cousin that he loves me. He doesn't know that his cousin told Jay or Jay told me.The problem is He has a girlfriend and aparrently he has some feelings for her but he loves me more. ( according to what his cousin said to Jay)I don't know what to do.I want to get over him but i cant.HELP
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 I think you should carry on with your life as normal, and spend time with your friends and family. If what the grapevine says is true, that he likes you more than his girlfriend, then he will eventually break up with her and ask you out. If he doesn't do that, then you'll know the grapevine was inaccurate, and you won't have done anything to be embarassed or ashamed of. If you do anything to try to break them up, you might not like the way people talk about you then.
To get over him will just take time and you staying as busy as possible with your friends and fun and school and hobbies is the best way to make the time fly by. There is no quick cure for heartbreak. The person who invents that will be a billionaire overnight. Sorry, sometimes that's the way things go, it's all about timing.
Good luck!
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reader, kenny +, writes (19 August 2008):
 I think until you hear it from the horses mouth, i mean actually hear it from him himself then you will never know. All this someone telling someone, then someone telling you could be a classic case of chinese whisper, like things getting added on along the way. At the moment he has got a girlfriend so he is out of bounds for the time being, so don't persue him until he becomes available.
Good luck x
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