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He has a girlfriend and texts me for quickies...

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Question - (1 September 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

This guy is confusing me. He has a girlfriend but he is texin me tellin me he misses. The thing is we hav history he used to call me everyday, nothing happened we didnt even go out,he tells me that hes with this new girl and its the type he wants to marry and he texts me asking me whether i like quickies and would i ever cheat on my boyfriend and if he didnt have a girlfriend who i have a quickie or go out for a drink. I dont find him attractive but he has a wicked personality, i like him but hes giving me mixed signals and he has a apparently serious relationship, wot do i do??? Sorry its long!!

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (2 September 2006):

bonym agony auntSo you have history but never slept together and the loser has the audacity to ask you for sex? Sweetheart, erase his number from your phone, block his number from calling ot texting you and wash that loser right out of your life. Ok? xXx

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A female reader, Tine United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2006):

Tine agony auntthis guy is a player and good personality or not i suggest you stay well clear of him. If he has a girlfriend and he is texting you asking you would you ever meet up with him, this should give you signs telling you exactly what hes like. I feel sorry for his girlfriend is he is getting on like this behind her back. Your probably not the only girl he is texting.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2006):

There shouldn't be anything confusing about this guy..he's playing with you, dear. He tells you he has a gf whom he claims is the type of girl he wants to marry, yet he flirts and asks you for quickies? Shania is dead on when she says he's a creep. I feel sorry for his gf. She has to put up with him. Tell him to take a hike..he's not showing you any respect.

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A female reader, shania United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2006):

shania agony auntThis fella is taking you for a mug...he has the cheek to txt you for quick,meaningless sex then once he has used you he will then go back to his serious girlfriend,give over! this guy is a 1st class creep.He doesn't want you at all,all he wants is a basic leg over,sorry if i sound blunt but thats the facts.If you want to be used then go ahead but i think your worth 10 of him so tell him to get lost and go out and find a guy who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.

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A female reader, tazlilly United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2006):

Don't bother. This guy obviously isn't worth your time, and if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend or even suggesting it then he is a sleaze. If you have a boyfriend you should stick with him unless you're having problems; never give a reason to cause trouble. Unless you really feel attracted to this guy and don't care about the implications then don't bother.

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