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writes: Im in love with one of my best mates, he's got a girlfreind but i know theres something missing in there relationship because we slept together. we get on so well and i just cant stop this feeling. i think about him all the time. i dont know what to do, please help me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2006): I was in a similar situation myself just before christmas. things got a bit carried away between me and my friend and we slept together more thn once and he had a gf. And I didnt tell my mate how i felt about him, it all ended up him feeling the same and finishing it with his gf of 3yrs. But when it came to the crunch,even tho i knew i had fallen for him and i did love him (and i stil do) I just couldnt be with him. and know things are a bit strange between us kinda 'egg shell walking'. I think knowing u cant have him cuz he has a girl is part of the thrill, and i know that seems nasty but, the way i felt after he'd left his gf we were best mates and i just couldnt be with him seriously, it was just too weird. even tho the sex was good...i think best male mates should stay mates or you may end up falling out for good.x
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (25 January 2006):
 This is a tricky one because there may well be something missing in there relationship but ultimately is that 'something missing' enough to make him leave her or is it enough to make him want to be with you as a partner.
Avoid interveneing in there relationship and focus on what you yourself can do. It seems to me that you need to know where you stand. This will more than likely involve talking to your mate in private. Tell him how you feel and that you need to know where you stand for your own sanity. Also this could damage the friendship if it is not dealt with properly. Once you find out where you stand you can procced from there. Good luck.
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