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writes: it was new years eve my partner of the last nine months were having a dance, we had had a few to drink and was merry. he recives a tx and his face changes, so i ask 'all ok babe? he replise 'yes' and disapears whilst im in the loo i find him in bed and ask who txd u he said one of the boys at work, i knew hed lied and waited for him to fall asleep and checked his phone, i asked him asa i find his reply contained babe and a x. he eventually told me that its an ex and that she txd xmas day too! and fell asleep. not telling me the truth has braught up all kinds of thorts,made me think if hes been telling me well whatever as we were together 16 years ago and had 2 sons the first one i sadly lost. the second i was left to defend on my own from the fourth month as he was bizzy sleeping around with also my sister. in the morning i asked him why he lied and im still waiting for an answer, he works away so we only get to see eachother weekends. he did tx me 'sorry babe' at 21.40new years day, i have asked him when hes phoned and ive txd, i get silence then he asked what time is it anyway, he knows this has realy upset me as ive been crying when on the phone and he handid his mobile to his mate who ive meet twice. do i belive its an ex of his? or not? please help me.
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reader, I can solve any problem +, writes (5 January 2007):
This is a tricky one i cant tell you what to do but if i were in your shoes id go to extreme lengths to find out exactly what was goin on thers two things it could just really be an ex but he just dunt wnat to upset you or make you paranoid which is what you are or he could be up to something try talkin to him face to face when he cant run away or put the fone down comunication is the best sorce and if you care about him trust is very important
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