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My ex keeps changing her feelings about our relationship! What's wrong with her?

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Question - (4 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom, * Waited For The One writes:

My Ex Girlfriend 1 Minute Is Cool the next not.

My ex girlfriend and myself are now apart 3 week’s have passed at first I just wanted to get our friend-ship of 2 a start so a week after us splitting we meet for an hr. I went in for a snog y I don’t know y just did she didn’t want to snog she wanted a peck. I was hoping to keep myself on the playing field.

Christmas Day I txt her saying “I would of belled u but i didn’t want to bother u “that after noon I txt her again “in the pub with your mom and dad hope your having a good time “she phones me at 2:40pm and she seemed down like mad. That night she goes’s out with her brother and is girlfriend. I went home and at 6am I cried because I had a good xmas day and my ex didn’t.

Boxing Day I went out that night got pissed. Things was said about my ex. I told her 28th she seemed happy I told her. She told me she was babysitting for her brother New Year eve. I offer to go up and baby-sit with her. She say’s no.

On new year’s eve she text’s me asking me if I want to go out 6th of Jan 2007 for a day with my nephew and her niece and nephew. I say yes she tell’s me she’s got no txt left so I buy her some. I offer to baby-sit again. She was cool with this.

New Year’s Eve everything went super. If u would have saw us u wouldn’t have thought we not even broken up or even been in a r-ship. It was magic. We were laughing, biteing, fighting it was fun. I stayed over till the next day. I was on the sofa down stairs and she went to bed. I heard a noise. And she walked into the room wearing her pjs and she slept on the other sofa chair across the room.

New years Eve everything was going great she talked 2 me about her new place I even talked into letting me move in with her I’m 24 nearly 25 and still living with my mom I need to get out and I just think it’s better 4 me in the long run if I live with her to get the feel of living without my mum.

Got up New Year’s Day went to the pub with Robert my ex brother and we watched Bolton a football team. In the local labor pub. My ex got all dressed up like she was expecting someone. At 3.30pm I kind of felt like I had to go home so I asked me ex brother 2 take me home. My ex was like “why u going? “ I told her I had over stayed my welcome she was saying “no don’t go please stay a little longer “I was like nah got 2 go.

That night was nice because it helped me move on from my ex now I want a new girlfriend someone who can suck my dick right. Going out on the 6th of January throw the day with my ex and at night with her brother to celebrate is 27th birthday.

I asked my ex today when me and rob have been out that night if she wanted to come and sleep at my house.

She txt back saying “ we need to slow down your rushin 2 be best friends “ she went on to say “ were not like normal friends “

I think I know y she’s acting werld. On the 2nd of January she was ill but I was meant to meet her at her work’s but she didn’t go. So I thought how nice would it be if I surprised her at her brother’s so I went into town and got her some new slipper’s and then went to her brother’s she was shocked to see me. but I dropped them of and then just lefted she was like “ u want to cum in I’m only changing the bed cover’s “ I was like “ nah got to go bye “ she watched me walk down the street. What do u think is wrong with my ex?

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A female reader, gabriella lopez  +, writes (4 January 2007):

gabriella lopez agony auntto me I think you should confront her about it, that the only thing you can really do. And if it still nothing changes don't waste your time with that move on with your life. There is always the chance she's using you, e.g. as a rebound. But it could have a chance that she still has feelings for you, but doesn't know what to do and were to start. And again tell her how you feel, so you know what to do next weather to be friends, more than friends.

Hopes this helps and wish you all the luck

From gabriella xoxo

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