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writes:How do you fix a guy's problem... I mean like me and the guy I like a lot!, where in the middle of doing it and he just went soft. I looked it up on webmd and it said that it cause be caused by too much drinking which he does drink a bit too much and I dont know if its me or the drinking. If it is me how can i fix it? What can I do to help him? How do I find out if it is me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2009): hey i really fell your pain cause im also in that kind of problem,i suggest u sit down with him & ask him about that problem teling him dat u wnt to help him cuase love him.i dont think its a alcohol cause my partner dont drink or us drugs he got that problem.it was hard to tell but it was for the sake of our relationship cause i really love him,it is not easy i the one you love dont satisfy u,so u need to talk & see what is the solution. bes of luck
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (17 November 2009):
 You cannot "fix" a guy's drinking problem, and I agree with "ffogalily" that too much alcohol is the likely cause. HE has to address the problem.
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reader, imogen1068  +, writes (17 November 2009):
 best thing to do is ask him "is it me" . but i doubt it is you, things like this can be caused by nerves, stress, tired, drinking, drugs,and worrying too much...it happend to me before with my boyfriend and he assured me it wasnt me it was just that he was really tired and stressed. theres no need to worry, unless it happens everytime you have sex, it could also be some medical condition.. best thing to do is talk about it, see if anything is stressing him. good luck
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (16 November 2009):
Some men just can't get it up when they are drunk, the guy I was with never could when he was dead ass drunk. Its not you, its him. The only way to fix it is to have sex when he's sober.
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