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51-59,
*aringlady
writes:I have been married to my husband 10 years and he is great to me. This last year an old boyfriend from over 15 years ago found me over the internet and we have become friends. He was my first ever boyfriend. He says he is happily married to his wife and loves her a lot but he keeps on talking about having sex with me all the time, he flirts, says sexual things and has even asked me to sleep with him. He says he loves his wife but wants sex with me as I turn him on. He knows I am married and doesnt mind. He just wants sex. He used to love me a long time ago but both of us have moved on and married, we both love our partners so why does he still want sex, does he still have feelings for me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): So why, as a married woman are u even having this conversation with him?
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reader, J.Gentleman  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 Ok, well, men have some sexual urges, I mean both men and women can be turned on by people other than their partners. Just ask my ex girlfriend and my ex bestfriend. But I dont think its much of a cheating thing, its just a sexual fantasy that just stuck, it will eventually pass, just dont ever give him a reason that he has a chance to have sex with you and your pretty much golden.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 Love your husband, stay with your husband, ignore this ex of yours.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): I agree with the anonymous female reader. In no way should you jeopardize your marriage. Especially if your husband is great to you. It's definetly not worth it. He does not have any feelings for you other than sexual feelings.
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (5 September 2010):
It's very doubtful that he still has feelings for you, other than the normal "we used to date and there's some good memories of shared time together" feelings you have for most of your exes. It's been too long and there's been no contact. He is probably just one of those guys that likes to flirt and sleep with other women, even though he's married. I know guys like that, that try to push the boundaries even though they're in a serious relationship and the women they chase are in a relationship. If they cared, they wouldn't be so disrespectful to their partner or you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): No he's just a sad little man who wants to have it off with you to get rid of his urges. Steer clear of him, do you really want to jeopardise your marriage for someone who just wants sex? I wonder what his wife would say about that...
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