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writes:I'm in a long disatnce relationship and my boyfriend gave me permission to have sex with other guys. Is this a bad thing or does he love me? I love him very much Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Probably only saying that because he's doing it. or because he feels like he can't please you in that way because of distance or he gets a kick out of it
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): I don't think your boyfriend loves you because, if he did he would not allow others to have sex with you, because you only belongs to him.
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reader, sesame  +, writes (23 March 2009):
i think you boyfriend doesn't love you because,because if he loves you he will not allow others to have sex with you, because you only belongs to him.
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reader, digger11  +, writes (23 March 2009):
simple answer no,
a man never wants to picture his girlfriend having sex with someone else, let alone allow her to..unless he's already sleeping with someone else.
it sounds like he's breaking up with you without really breaking up with you if you know what I mean
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reader, Jason means Healer  +, writes (23 March 2009):
Sounds alot like he's trying to give himself permission to do the same.
Sure he might love you, but would you do that to somebody you was "in love" with?
Well, you might. But it would probably involve a threesome or wife swapping etc.
If you love him as much as you say; tell him and also tell him that although you can take whatever he has to tell you about his infidelities or is he merely over compensating for fear of being possessive?
Only thing I know; however much you are "broad minded" if you sleep with other people enough, like your faithfullness, your heart will wander...
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (23 March 2009):
Hmmmm... I hate to say it but this sounds like a set up to me. If you have permission, then it's implied that he has permission too. If he knows you love him then he's probably not worried about you actually acting on it... but frees him up to do whatever he wants without guilt. I'd say this is definitely a red flag.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): Maybe to relieve sexual tension, however if someone is IN LOVE i dont think they would say that to you.. you should ask him how he really feels!
GOODLUCK!
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