New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

He ejaculated on my hand, I touched myself when it dried. Am I pregnant or am I stressed?

Tagged as: Sex, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (12 September 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2008)
A female New Zealand age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I have been with my bf for 2 months and i gave him a hand job. he cumed on my hand it dried then i touch the top of my vagina but not near my hole. im missing my period and im really worried im not even a teen yet

View related questions: ejaculate, hand-job, period, vagina

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, justme3 United States +, writes (25 September 2008):

i dont think you're pregnant.

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, Mark25 United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2008):

Mark25 agony auntI just want to correct a post that I made earlier. I said that sperm start dying as soon as they come into contact with the air. This information is wrong. Sperm can live for several hours after contact with the air. I apologise for the misinformation I gave. Tisha-1 was kind enough to correct me on this. The last thing that I wish to do is to give any bad advice out. Sorry.

Thanks Tisha-1.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 September 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHere's a website that gives you the risk assessment for all kinds of sex, I've given you the link for manual sex, as that is what a handjob is also called.

http://www.scarleteen.com/pregnancy_risk_assessment_manual_sex

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 September 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHi, I just want you to have the best information available so that you can take care of yourself and prevent pregnancy and STDs. Please watch this video, it is very educational.

http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html

As the semen was dried, it may be that you're just fine, I expect there's an extremely low risk. It's likely that the combination of your stress and the fact that you're so very young still and your periods haven't fully regulated themselves is causing the delay in the onset of your period.

Wait a little while, try to stay calm and then if you do not get your period, buy a pregnancy test and follow the instructions.

And to correct Mark25, sperm can indeed remain viable outside the body. If they didn't, there would be no sperm banks or test tube babies.

Please make sure that you have ALL the facts before engaging in sexual behavior, as you may affect your future health and plans.

I expect everything will be just fine. Take care.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, Mark25 United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2008):

Mark25 agony auntIt's unlikely that you are pregnant. Sperm cannot live outside of the body. Sperm start dying when they come into contact with the air. Semen has to actually get inside your body to fertilise an egg so if it was dry then it's highly unlikely that this has happened. The only way to put your mind at rest is to do a test.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, malvern United Kingdom +, writes (12 September 2008):

malvern agony auntI can assure you that you will definitely not be pregnant from what you say you have done. You have probrably missed, or delayed, a period from being anxious and worried about it all.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "He ejaculated on my hand, I touched myself when it dried. Am I pregnant or am I stressed? "

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312570000023698!