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writes:so my boyfriend of 6 months dumped me for being too prude... he is now all flirty with his ex gf whos a whore...i feel broken so hurt. i feel like apart of me has died. i have delet with break ups before but not one like this. i loved him with all of my heart. he was my everything. and i believed him when he told me he loved me and i was his everything. now im not so sure. because hes already way over me and doesnt care. so idk how i am going to get through this...i feel broken to the bone. ive never loved someone before..sso idk how to heal from this. PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME. because i cant take this heart break anymore...there hasnt been one day where i havent cried...idk how much longer i can take this. please help me..please...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): Right, is his ex actually a whore or is this just you being judgmental? I suggest the latter. In which case I imagine this extends to all areas of your life, especially opinions on sex. I hate being around people who are really judgemental about sex, it's immature and annoying. I think that's probably how your bf felt as well eventually.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2010): Try slutting it up a bit for him next time he comes around, if he ever does again. Men are visual and like to see that kind of stuff from time to time.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 "he is now all flirty with his ex gf whos a whore."
Yep, he's right, you sound like a judgemental prude to me.
You don't sound very nice, and you sound very clingly. Maybe these are the reasons he left. Pull yourself together, change your personality and become a nicer person and maybe he'll change his mind.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (11 February 2010):
 You need to realize that he did not love you...if he did, he would not have left you for being 'too prude.'
He did not appreciate who you really are and things like sex were more important to him.
I know how bad you feel now, don't try to supress your feelings. Help yourself out of this by thinking that he was not good enough for you. You deserve someone who will love you for who you are, prude or not prude. He was shallow and I doubt that things with this ex of his will last.
Realize you're way better than he is and that you deserve a lot more. Just keep telling yourself that he did not have genuine feelings for you, and so why should you cry over someone who doesn't see how good and special you are.
This will take some time and it will be a day by day process. It won't go away overnight. Whatever you do, don't blame yourself, this was not your fault. He didn't see what he had in front of him.
All the best :)
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reader, Lexie88 +, writes (11 February 2010):
You need to realize that he did not love you...if he did, he would not have left you for being 'too prude.'
He did not appreciate who you really are and things like sex were more important to him.
I know how bad you feel now, don't try to supress your feelings. Help yourself out of this by thinking that he was not good enough for you. You deserve someone who will love you for who you are, prude or not prude. He was shallow and I doubt that things with this ex of his will last.
Realize you're way better than he is and that you deserve a lot more. Just keep telling yourself that he did not have genuine feelings for you, and so why should you cry over someone who doesn't see how good and special you are.
This will take some time and it will be a day by day process. It won't go away overnight. Whatever you do, don't blame yourself, this was not your fault. He didn't see what he had in front of him.
All the best :)
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