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writes: On Tuesday my boyfriend of 4 months dumped me over the internet. Wednesday we met, coz he and I felt he should tell me his feelings in person. We broke up because he didn't see it going anywhere. He was scared that it was getting too serious and he thought it would hurt if he left it longer we would split and it would hurt even more. He cried and told me he still loved me and he didn't know if what he was doing was right. Then he kissed me and now he thinks it's a possibility of getting back together coz he said it doesn't feel right without me. It felt right when he kissed me and said we should give it another go but things had to change. We had to commmunicate more and stop arguing. He also told me he wanted us to still be friends before then. So I don't know what to make of this.....far more was exchanged and if you need any more info please ask, but I need your opinion on this. Does he still want me? Or does he just care and not want to see me upset so wants to get back together to make me happy?
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (15 April 2006):
 Sounds like the relationship could do with more honesty, more talking and more making up!!
Do what you feel is right in your heart and not in your head, if you love him and he loves you and you feel there is still life in the relationship then give it another go, if you were on reflection even a tiny bit glad that it was over then leave it as over.
Soul search and do what you feel is right for you.
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reader, shania +, writes (14 April 2006):
 I think it was a bit coward of him to dump you on the internet then to change his mind the next day.Anyway...putting all that to one side...he said he wanted to give your relationship another go,so it sounds like he wants to keep seeing you but is probably fed up with the arguments....do you argue a lot? If so then you will have to consider whether you two are compatable or not....you see if you want this relationship to change and to become better,then you two need to sit down and figure out on what is going wrong otherwise you will be back to square one again.If you try all this and still nothing has changed then maybe your relationship has run its course....remember though,you dont want your fella dumping you every 5 minutes then running back to you...thats not healthy either.Good luck.
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