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writes: I met this guy in high school. i have been talking to this guy for over two months. i have known him for over a year. we met and he was my valentine. we talked for a month and out of nowhere he stopped. He then had a girlfriend and several months passed. then on thanksgiving i get a text from him. we started talking again, he was no longer with his girlfriend. we talked all thru middle of january. Then again he tells me he is sorry but he still has feeling for his ex-girlfriend and thinks its better if we are just friends. he stops calling me. then again recently in july i was online and he sent me a message and again stupid me we started talking. we were talking for about a month. then again he told me he saw his ex-girlfriend and he still he has feelings for her. we stopped talking for 3days. he came over to my house and told me, he likes hanging out with me and for me to give him another chance. he told me he wants be more than just friends to give him time to get over his ex. i gave him another chance. then a few days ago. I noticed something by the way he was talking to me. I asked him if there was anything he wanted to tell me and he said nothing. I kept insisting as I knew. he finally told me. he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend. but yet he cares for me and still wants to keep talking to me. I told him i just want to be his friend as his feelings for his ex-girlfriend have not changed. i told him when he is sure he does not want nothing with his ex. then he maybe we can try it again. I told him i was not going to wait for him either. I really like him and i want to be more than just his friend. he still text me, but it is not the same. i miss him?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 You need to get rid of this guy, he is just messing with your head! I can't believe you've allowed him to do this the number of times he has, never mind any more. He will never get over this girl; that's a fact. Everyone has someone it their life who is that 'one', the 'one that got away', the person they will never be fully over. I believe that maybe, she's his.
People only move on from this when they meet someone who they love more than they ever loved the other person and you are not that for him, as he keeps going back to her. He's wasting your time and should stop doing this to you, he wants to have you to fall back on everytime she kicks him to the kerb.
Don't be that girl, have some pride, honey. Get rid of him and tell him you're just mates, he's messed you around too much. Good luck and be strong, there's someone out there who wants to treat you well
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