A
female
age
36-40,
*assie71
writes:My ex boyfriend (just) dumped me on Monday. The story is that over a week ago I found texts on his phone to a 17 year old girl he works with (he's 30) saying things like I would prefer to be on a date with you, I can't wait to see you again and that he thought she was gorgeous. I do accept that it was wrong of me to check his phone but he was been so secretive about her when normally he doesn't care if i know about his female friends and it was this that made me check his phone. I asked him about it immediately and he said he was only joking with her and got really angry and said I should trust him and he left. After that I didn't see him for days even though i needed him as my mom was in hosptial. After that he still insisted it was a joke until I pointed out that it obviously wasn't. Then this weekend we went shopping and everything was normal, he was the one that suggested going away for xmas as well. On the following night he was texting someone he said was his friend but I noticed it was the girl he has been flirty texting and said to him it was the girl why lie and he said he was texting them at the same time and he had only texted her once but I knew it was more than once plus it was 10 at night. I then asked if he could just show me what he had been texting her to put my mind at ease and again he was angry and point blank refused to show me then the following morning he broke up with me saying it's him, not me and all that old cliche crap. Even though he dumped me he still refused to show me the phone and still denies cheating. I can't move on properly as I can't help thinking I have been lied to. Can someone please advise me on whether I'm right to think that he wasn't be truthful?
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reader, aavon82 +, writes (19 December 2012):
Don't worry, Karma will catch up with him sooner or later. In the meantime, as weird as this might sound, be thankful... you had a lucky escape!
I wish you all the best.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (18 December 2012):
 he lied.
he didn't want to have to admit he lied
so before you dumped him he dumped you.
he dumped you because he got caught..... plain and simple and he's
a liar
a cheat
and
a coward
you are better off without him
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female
reader, oldbag +, writes (18 December 2012):
 Hi
You were definately right, he did lie to you, I would be grateful he has gone. Him storming out,his behaviour and refusing to show you the messages, says it all.
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reader, somewhere_between +, writes (18 December 2012):
 Either he knows he`s been caught so he thought he may as well dump you before you dump him, or he`s found someone else he considers better. Hopefully, it will all go wrong for him and you can tell him to eff off when he decides he wants you back. He`s not worth your time.
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