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writes:ok so theres this guy i have been talking to. And he had just recently stopped talking to an ex girlfriend of 2 years. we met and there was an instant connection we were talking for about 7 months until he just all of a sudden just leaves me to get back with his ex. He doesnt call or anything and he can never give me a reason. i dont understand why he would just drop me without giving me a reason. and when i ask him if he would ever get back wit his ex he said "no". could anyone help me and tell me why he would just talk to me for this long and then drop me like i never exsited. Im hurting really bad inside becuase i was beginning to love him.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 He was your safety net. I know its really horrible to accept but, perhaps he still had feelings for his ex and he knew that if he got to know someone else his feelings might change and he will forget about her. But 7 months is a long time to not get over an ex and he probably still really cares for her.
Of course he is not going to tell you that he still likes his ex, of course he is going to say no. otherwise he wouldnt be able to keep in contact with you, to forget about his ex coz he might have thought u didnt want to still speak to him.
Just forget about him. He has his reasons and though its horrible to accept that, respect him, even if he is a right pig. After all, you two were never going out, so it is kind of his decision whether to go back out with his ex or someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): The reason he broke it off with you is to get back with the ex who he must still care for. You want him to talk to you about this but it won't change anything. I know its hard but you have to just let it go.
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