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writes:I have been with my partner nearly 5 years and I love him dearly. We have 2 kids one is 3 and the other is 8 months. I find it really hard to have any sexual contact with him. I do try really hard but I feel like I just get a mental block. I had a really rough labour with my baby and im thinking that might be why but I can't use that answer for ever. I don't know what to do. Help, he is getting very fustrated Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (21 March 2008):
 Talk to your doctor about this, lots of women go through this and there may be simple physical reasons for how you feel, your hormones may be completly out of whack.
No need to solve this on your own.
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reader, Jmo  +, writes (18 March 2008):
 Different women can experience different changes in their libido with each pregnancy. Some women experience no change and some don't feel very sexual for more than a year. I guess I can't make any real suggestions seeing as how I don't know either of you, but I do think it would help if you two got away for a night or two and spent some intimate time together WITHOUT the assumption that it would ultimately lead to sex. That way, you won't feel any pressure of having the idea in the back of your mind and you might just reconnect with him on a more sensual level. Hope this helps at least a little.
-Jmo
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