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writes:DEAR CUPID I have been "dating/messing" around with this guy that works @ my job for two months now. He is 34 I am 22, in the beginning he told me he wasn’t really looking for anything serious but unfortunately I disregarded all of that and now I have fallen for him. He flirts with the receptionist a lot in front of my face and it make me livid. When were together we have such a great time but I have come to realize that he does not want what I want so now WHAT DO I DO? Please help
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reader, Kylie2010 +, writes (8 April 2010):
 ive beeen in the same situation before..its sucks...best advice, its what i had to do, LET GO..it was super hard but i eventually got over it,,ive come to realize that he was only wanting me late night and that was it..he didnt want a relationship, and talked to other girls like i wasnt even there.. just move on sweetie, u wil find someone that loves u
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (8 April 2010):
The fact of the matter is he does not want what you want. So now it the moment to move on. Don't delay it anymore. You will get over him, and it will hurt less that if you continue like this and in another few years realize you've wasted several years on nothing.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 April 2010):
 If you have incompatible needs, it is hard to remain committed to each other.
I am afraid you will have to let him go and look for someone who will share your dreams and aspirations.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (8 April 2010):
Now it's time to move on. Don't date/mess around with him anymore and don't talk to him outside of work. Avoid him at work if you can, but still try to maintain professional if you can't avoid him. I'm sure you can't help but run into him from time-to-time, so there's going to be times when it's extra tough...but you'll be over him probably soon, it's only been two months.
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