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He doesn't want to get hurt, what should I do?

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Question - (21 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i really fancy this guy and i know he fancies me too i asked him and he said that he does but is scared of me hurting him and doesnt want to lose me as a friend through it all because he cares about me to much what do i do?i want to go out with this guy for him to be my bf but i don't know what to say or how to say it hes coming over mine next week and sleeping over everyones trying to get me to ask him out but im scared out of my mind!i have never liked a shy guy before usally they ask me out straight away instead of waiting around continuing to be my best friend help!x

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (24 October 2007):

Asexy agony auntIt sounds like he's trying to work his way up to talk to you. Make it easier. Look him in the eyes and LISTEN when he talks. Laugh at his jokes. Smile at him a lot and do what you can to make him feel really comfortable.

If he still won't ask you out, ask him. You'll be doing him a favor.

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