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writes:I am a divorcee with 2 children.I am 40yrs old. Currently, i have noticed a guy and he is 35 yrs old and single. I was attracted by his gentle and lovely behaviours. I occassionally will look at him and i also notice that he will look at me but we didn't talk because we are from different department. I have the feeling that he also like me. Our desk are quite near to each other, i used to walk pass his desk and he also will walk pass my desk. He is a shy guy whom does not talk to girls.What should I do to get to talk to him and how should i be sure he also like me?I am afraid to go to him because of my present suitation. I am also afraid that if things do not get out well how am i going to face him.btw,No body in my office know that i was divorce.Thank u and hope to hear from u soon..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2006): I have notice he is looking at me occationally, till date I have not talk to him. I think he is not prepare to know me. Please help......
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2006): Hi
Everyone has been in this position before. That's how most romances start- someone approaching someone, and just like the saying i think you need to let nature take it's course. As he is a shy type of person, start by saying "Hello" then after as while, start small conversations, and take it from there. Unfortunately there are no guarantees if he likes you- sometimes people send the wrong signals (Trust me I've been there - even in a work environment) but what do you have to lose? You can talk about a movie you want to see and casually ask him if he would like to come. Nothing heavy. That way you won't feel bad if he says no. I'm a firm believer in siezing the day and no "What if's" and now I'm with the man of my dreams and we are looking to get married! So good luck girl, and simply go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2006): HiEveryone has been in this position before. That's how most romances start- someone approaching someone, and just like the saying i think you need to let nature take it's course. As he is a shy type of person, start by saying "Hello" then after as while, start small conversations, and take it from there. Unfortunately there are no guarantees if he likes you- sometimes people send the wrong signals (Trust me I've been there - even in a work environment) but what do you have to lose? You can talk about a movie you want to see and casually ask him if he would like to come. Nothing heavy. That way you won't feel bad if he says no. I'm a firm believer in siezing the day and no "What if's" and now I'm with the man of my dreams and we are looking to get married! So good luck girl, and simply go for it!
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