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writes:HiI went out on a couple of days trips with a man whilst on holiday and enjoyed it. We recently met up for a drink but he was on about that he is a free agent (I know that) and does not want a relationship, so I have to assume that means he wants to play the field and sleep around? I know he is being honest but I dont like the thought of perhaps sleeping with this man knowing he is sleeping with "others". My friend says If I put up with that I am mad becasue she says it obviously means he doesnt think that much of me?? IF that is the case then I am not too happy to go along with it either would it mean I dont mean that much to him???Views??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): I agree with your friends....If he Respected you, then you would be his only sexual partenr...He is using you for his own enjoyment...Not the longgevety of the relashonship. Head for the door...Perhaps he will realize his wickend ways...If not, good for you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): I agree with your friends. Hes not giving you that much respect. He's basically saying he's using you for sex.
Does that make you feel good about yourself?!
The thing is, it doesn't matter if you say yes or not to him, because he'll have others as you said, which is probably why he was so blunt about it. And he was being honest so you couldn't hold anything against him.
But is that the level you want to put yourself at?! Not caring if your there or not until he wants sex?!
Find someone that wants you for you, who doesn't want you for sex. Who wants you emotionally and not physically.
Stand strong, show self pride and say no, walk away and find someone else.
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