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He doesn't tell me his plans. Should I be worried?

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Question - (17 July 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2011)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *licia writes:

I have been in a relationship for five years now and everytime I have plans without him like going to a friends house for dinner or meeting up with my family I let him know. He on the other hand doesn't do that and the only way I find out that he is at a party or meeting up with his family is if I call him. Should I be worried or just back off. Am I too much of a nag?

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A female reader, Orbiter United Kingdom +, writes (18 July 2011):

Well what is he like in other areas of his life, is he generally a forgetful person or maybe does things on the spur of the moment? Is this a recent change in behaviour for him?

I wouldn't worry too much unless he seems deliberately evasive and the only times he doesn't tell you what he's doing is when he's going out at night or to a party.

If he doesn't even tell you when he's meeting up with family then it's probably because he just doesn't think.

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