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writes:I have a very simple question and what should I do...So I used to like this guy for 3 years and we were friends and everything, we started dating from the new yeas party. And everything is fine, like we joke, he is a very nice guy, I can trust him, etc. So my questions are...:1. How do I tell him or what should we do, like I feel like he does not show enough emotions? 2. We had sex, and right after sex, I kind off cooled of him. Did not like him that much. Its not that he is bad in it, etc, like I don't care, but it just happened. Is that normal? Am I supposed to do something?THank you,xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (2 March 2014):
 Here is how I feel things being: you two are just friends who tried - because you were particularly sexually excited these days - to have a ball in bed. Yet, the show was just good enough, but after the release, reality has reappeared as it plainly is: you are just two friends who don't have to offer each other any thing else than some good times discussing, watching movies, and ranting about everyday life annoyances. At best, you two will become FWB. Is it really what you want to be ?
Besides, it's the proof, once again, that even if a Huffington Post article claims the opposite, sex doesn't produce love, at least deep and real love. Love should come first, but we all know how things work in our sorry world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2014): Well, was he selfish in bed?
That would be enough for me to "cool off"...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 March 2014):
 How was the sex? Any good? Maybe your fantasy of finally being with him didn't live up to your own fantasy hype?
He is who he is, however if there are things you NEED from him (him showing emotions) then I would talk about it, but expecting him to all of a sudden be someone else is unrealistic. I'm guessing you KNEW he wasn't a big emotional fella?
Can you give an example of what emotions you "think" he should show you?
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