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36-40,
*ubbles513
writes:I've been in a relationship for a little over 5 yrs and recently my man has been acting different, watching online porn secretively and trying to hide it and lie about it, getting attitudes out of nowhere and ignoring me for unknown reasons,seems to be losing interest in me sexually, checking out other womens appearances thinking i dont notice him doing it,and just to me, doesnt seem truely happy anymore,but if i try to talk to him about these things it will cause an argument. I really do love this man, what should i do?
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reader, Catflap1  +, writes (1 July 2010):
There is no point in avoiding it. Some men act unkind instead of telling the truth because it is easier. 5 years is a long time at your age. I hope you don't get hurt but perhaps it is time to know what is going on in his head. If he will say. If he accuses you of nagging it won't be very helpful to you. Perhaps you could say you are not happy with the way he is treating you and back off, see if he steps forward. Stop worrying about him so much and worry about yourself. Do you deserve better treatment? If you can't get it don't hang on at all costs. Let him know you love him but are not happy with his behaviour. If he takes that up and yet doesn't change maybe he is looking for a way out. Maybe is it temporary maybe not. Either way just face it on your own behalf and be strong. If he sees you putting yourself first it will have a good impression. It won’t change things if he wants to move on but it may help things if he is having a bad moment. If that is the case I am sure he feels bad about it. Test out what is happening. Good luck
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