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He doesn't seem to understand that my life isn't devoted to his penis!!

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Question - (17 January 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been with a new guy for three months now, and he's absolutely drop dead gorgeous. But there's one problem - he's obsessed with sex. He wants it every day and more than once - the third time we had sex he wanted to do it six times. It's getting stupid - he doesn't seem to understand that my life isn't devoted to his penis, and expects me to head straight to the bedroom whenever he wants it. However in all other aspects he's literally the most perfect guy I've ever met and I don't want to get rid of him. I've tried sitting down and talking about it, but he just laughs it off and tells me it's because I'm good - he knows how to get round me and evade my questions.

I'm at my wits end and I'm sick of sex! How can I get him to stop demanding me for longer than four hours?!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011):

It sounds to me like your life DOES revolve around his penis lately.

Are you happy with that or not?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2011):

Easy, you say no and stick to your guns. He only does it because you don't stop him, so you either stop him or you stop complaining.

Just say no and don't let him persuade you.

It's easy as hell OP, if he asks then you say not tonight and if you ask again I'm leaving. Just stick to this and don't let him talk you into it and he'll stop being a pest.

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