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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 and a bit months now, but we've always had a thing for about 3 years before this and he's always been absoloutley inlove with me!for the past week i've been getting this weird feeling from him that he doesn't feel the same way as he used to and that he never wants me round anymore.and i asked why he had been acting weird and he said it was me?yesterday we had an argument and we never have arguments.we've had sex, he's lost his virginity to me and he loves it, he cant get enough of it, which doesn't bother me.yesterday we had sex and then after we had finished i said "and i was telling myself that i didnt want to have sex with you today because im angry", i knew as soon as i said it i shouldn't have even though i thought it through before i said it.then he started being all frantic and cleaning then he sat down and was all quiet and was angry because i know his angry look, he told me im always devo (which means sad)and its either my mum or my friends, but i hardly act "devo" around him.his friends came over and wanted him to go to one of boys houses and i said he could go and then out of no where he said i just went crazy at him when all i said is that he could go with his friends.then we started arguing again and i told him that he makes me feel that he doesn't want me around anymore.we didnt end up sorting it out like we usually do, even though we never have fights.then today i went over to his house acting as if nothing had happened, and i tried getting him alone but we never were alone like he pretty much used every thing for us not to be alone, he's wanted me to wear a g string for him ever since we knew eachother i told him i had a suprise for him and he was like ok but we never got alone so i couldnt give him what he wanted.its really upsetting and pissing me off!what do i do? i cant talk about it with him because it will just turn out shit and i whimp out because i dont want to make him angry, i dont know what to do? please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 It might look as it is but girl you are confusing.First situation.You agreed to have sex but after it you would say it must not go that way. The things in the mind of him at that might be; you're not satisfied(being a guy it would mean a lot), something wrong(that will bother him for the rest of the time) or your making fond of him. Most likely the first one because he said your sad. Ho got the feeling of making you unhappy after you have sex.Second situation.You let him go just right after a fight. You must first try to solve it within yourselves before other parties could enter and you made it sound easy for you. That's why he got the feeling of unwanted.Third situation.The problem is still hot but your way coping with it is even hotter. Cool down first.And i think it will only be effective if your boyfriend is a horny one but he seems not that type. You have sex but not to the full extent of horny.So here's the thing of advice.He wants you to make him you want and enjoy and love his company. More time to spend together. Only the two of you. That is why you realized the lost of having him alone because that's all she's giving you in situation 2.Mingle more with him and don't show any regret about it.Happiness of having him around.Let him SEE it and FEEL it.
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