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writes: Hi I'm a very confused girl at the moment. This boy that I've been kinda seeing has just come home from America for Christmas after been gone for 2 months. He rang me from America and everything seemed fine between us, but since he has come home on Monday 19th December I haven't heard from him. I've sent him messages but he hasn't replied back. Do you think I should forget about him? Please help. I'm so upset. :-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2005): In my opinion, when a guy has a sincere interest in a girl-nothing-absolutely nothing will stop him from communicating
with her. A telephone call takes seconds to dial a few numbers...a text message takes a couple minutes to type. Even a quick "hello, I'm home-will get in touch with you later" would suffice. With all the electronic ways and means to communicate nowadays, he could have at least let you know, he has arrived home. Sorry to say..it sounds like he's not that interested, hun. I wouldn't waste my time...worrying...move on.
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reader, kellyO +, writes (21 December 2005):
Hi dear, so sorry he has come back for 3 days and hasnt even bothered to contact u. You should be the first person he should call. I mean he should be eager to call.
My advise is that if u r sure he got your messages then wait for him to respond. He will contact u soon enough when he does ask him why he hasnt called since.
Goodluck.Have fun with other friends.
cheer up have a merry xmas and new yr.
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reader, Virginiaac +, writes (21 December 2005):
Hi,
It is only the 21st. Give him time. Not too much mind. Have your messages gone to his mobile? He may not be getting them. Find out where he is and nail him, you have a right to know where you stand. If you can't nail him then go out over the Christmas and find someone worth nailing. You deserve someone who appreciates you.
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