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writes:I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Really nice person. But the thing is that he doesn't seem to put in effort to make me happy. I told him that he isn't giving me enough attention. He could be gaming, watching video or chatting with his friends that's why he isn't replying. He admitted it. He said that he needed space. So now I only text him when he text me so I won't be an irritant. He tries to give me more time too. Which is great.You can call me materialistic but he didn't get me a christmas present. I got him a box of chocolates and was expecting him to get me something since I hinted him what I like and told him what I want. Those weren't expensive stuff. And it wasn't like he didn't have the money.He used to spend more time and money on me when we first started dating. But now it seems that he doesn't put in as much effort anymore.He is even lazy to give me a smiley on facebook on our 5th month when I asked. He just gave me on MSN where we were chatting. Is that so difficult to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): oh boy, sounds like he's losing interest. i dated a guy for 8 months, at first he was into me and sweet, then a few months in he rarely did anything thoughtful for me. i just brushed it off that he was busy, or just obtuse, but the truth was that he didn't feel strongly for me and was just stringing me along. for his birthday, i got him champagne and a cupcake and sang happy birthday. for mine, 7 months in the relationship, he got me a card he didn't sign and a free beer mug he got at a bar! if a guy is just not that into you, he will treat you like that, so beware. i say dump this dude, he's too focused on himself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): you got it wrong. i give him all my attention. he said he needed space therefore i try not to contact him so much.
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reader, ringgirl  +, writes (30 December 2009):
well sounds like hes calm, settled in to the relationship, sounds like you got a lot of attention,thats a bit selfish(no offence) try giving him a little more attention, then when hes calm talk to him and say i feel you have been sort of ignoring me lately and it makes me feel upset a little hope i helps!!! =)
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