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writes: Hi all, thanks for taking the time to look at my question.The problem is that we make plans and my bf never keeps to them and most of the idea is his in the first place. its causing me a lot of embarassement always explaining to family and friends. he has insisted three times now for me to organise our engagment party and close to the day he cancels. i have told him not to make plans he doesnt want to commit to and he seems to keep doing that. he went behind my back to tell my dad our engagement party was this weekend. i wasnt even aware until my dad told me. i asked him bout it and he said well i thought of it and he laughed i guess we wont be able to make it then. am angry and i dont want to put up with this embarrasment anymore. his explanation is that this is who he is and if i love him then i should understand. he say he has problems making plans is that an excuse?
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (9 December 2005):
 IF you ever do get to the marriage stage with this guy, he will probably leave you standing at the altar...he needs to grow up.
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reader, spaz19ok +, writes (9 December 2005):
How do u know he won't back out when it comes time to say "I DO"? U need to find someone who dosen't make u look like an ass.
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