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writes:My husband rarely kisses me in bed. His says: "We don't have to kiss every time we have sex." Ladies, are your husband like this too? Because I always thought that if you don't love, you don't kiss. And to be honest his not kissing me in bed turns me off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): he doesnt kiss u so u kiss him. well certainly kiss is associated with love but people do kiss when they dont even love so this is no criteria. if he doesnt kiss u then dont start thinking that he doesnt love u. u like to kiss and want to be kissed. in a similar manner he doesnt want. probably u r asking too much from him. the case is not that he never kisses u. so chill. give him a lip kiss and anyhow he will have to kiss u :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhat he says that because we live together and see each other every day and we spend so much time together, blah, blah...
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 February 2008):
 Does your husband feels that sex is a chore and to be quickly done with ? Or he could be disinterested with sex .It seems to look that way to me.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (14 February 2008):
 Does he kiss you at other times? I must admit, this is rather strange. Kissing (in my opinion) goes hand in hand when making love to someone. Tell him it turns you off when he doesn't kiss you and ask him why he doesn't feel it's important. Tell him YOU do and what you feel matters too so pucker up next time hubby!
~Eve~
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): My husband rarely kisses me also - but our relationship has never been a kissy one from the start. But I know that he loves me none-the-less and it doesnt really bother me too much that we rarely kiss.
You should ask your husband why he doesnt and tell him how you feel. This is something that you can both meet each other in the middle with. OR if you dont want to be as forward as that, then try taking the initiative yourself - just cuddles up to him and set the mood and start kissing. If he pulls away then you can ask him why he did so.
But not kissing doesnt mean he doesnt love you - you just need to open up and talk to him more about it. Good luck
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