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writes: Me and a guy friend were supposed to meet up today but the weather is crap so it doesn't look like it's happening. It was his idea to meet up but today it decided to rain (typical). I text him and it went like this:Me: Enjoying the weather? ;)Him: Rain :(Me: Yeah. Typical.Him: :(Me: Well, have a good day I guess?Him: I was looking forward to seeing you.Me: Yeah? You don't have to. :pHim: Do you want to?Me: when?Me: Well, just let me know I guess.Him: Ok :)Me: If you don't want to just be honestHim: I do. I thought you didn't want to.Me: Ok. I'm confused now lolHim: Ok, lol now I'm confused. Feel free to come round if you want, or not if you don't :)Me: Lol ok I'll come round for a bit. Ok?*no reply*Me: you there?That was yesterday and we haven't spoken since. I only said "well have a good day i guess" because when i text him he didn't mention meeting up today and only replied with "rain :(" so i got the impression he didn't want to. I'm a bit insecure myself and i was too scared to just ask him if he still wanted to see me in-case he turned me down. I just feel like "why would he want to hang out with me"? (insecure). Even though it was his idea to see me. He's going away soon and i really did want to see him before he goes.I text him saying I was sorry we didn't meet he replied "it's ok. I often get stood up". I think I hurt him or he's angry. I replied "i was going to but when you didn't reply i decided not to. I didn't just want to turn up. If you're free before you go i'd still like to see you x" Is that ok or was that kinda lame?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi, yes i realize now when i look back at the messages. He contacted me again to rearrange so hopefully things are ok now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2011): If I was him, reading your replies, I would have gotten the distinct impression that you were using the weather as an excuse not to see me.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 Doll he told you he was looking forward to seeing you and then you kept saying you don't have to. You made him unsure with all those replys about you don't have to. You need to ring him and talk instead of txting and tell him you want to meet up with him and when does it suit him for you to come round. Be confident he wants to see you trust me I can see that in his txts to you but your reply's made him unsure.
Use the landline and talk instead of txting it works better.
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