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18-21,
anonymous
writes:Hi CupidSo there is this guy"P"in school whom I shared a beautiful bond of friendship wid me in grade 7 in school and then seating arrangements changed and our friendship also faded meanwhile I dealt with a lot of traumas And my girl friends always made fun of me so I was pissed off by the school and wanted to get away from the hell!Teachers there were rude mean and partial.Now this guy always hinted me his feelings which I thought were mere crush but I suspect they were very deep.He cried regarding me to his friend for 30 mins.I feel sorry for him coz I suspect him to consider me as First love.So fast forward in grade 10 th I accidentally sent him a Heart on Instagram for which he indirectly posted 7 pics of him on his account seeking clarification of the emoji also his both bros (best frnds) flirted me in the school and followed me to my house.I earlier in grade 6 had a crush on one of his best friends and now follow him on insta also wished him for b'day which P came to know about.Now I just followed P on Insta from my own account but he doesn't follow me back and I wanted you to advice me should I leave him all alone or Wish him on his b'day or something like that he is really a nice guy and I don't want him to suffer.P.S. he posted once that one sided love is silent killer.I always wonder why didn't he convey his feelings?He would be much more free.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2020): BTW, he's not suffering. Where did you get such a notion? He's fine, he has probably met someone he likes. It's better to make more friends and socialize; so you don't obsess over one boy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2020): Sounds like he's pretty shy; but be careful about chasing a guy online too much. Others can see, and they'll make fun, or tease you!
You might need to step-back and stop wondering so much what's going-on with him. You've made a lot of effort trying to let him know you like him; but he's slacking-off, and not really showing as much interest as before. Could be because he likes somebody else; but feels guilty, because he keeps getting messages from you.
Time to take some interest in other boys. He's becoming a full-time project; and you can't allow boys to mess with your head or your heart too much. They'll keep you running in circles; while sending you mixed-signals. That's making a fool of you. You're too sensitive, and you don't deserve that.
In my opinion, you have given him more attention than he deserves, and maybe it's time to stop. Let him chase you a little now!
No, do not send him a happy birthday after he has continuously ignored you. That's not nice to do, if he claims he likes you so much. Let him show how much he likes you; and show you more respect for your feelings.
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