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writes:So I havent talked to this guy for about over a month. The reason I havent talked to him was because I like him but he dosen't feel the same way towards me so I decided to lose contact with him so that I could get over him. Well today I got on msn messenger and he told me ''you changed your number ''and I said ''yes'' then he asked why so I made up a lie. Anyways I gave him my new number and he called me and everything was going okay until he asked ''so how come you've been ignoring me''and I said ''I dont know''.Then he started telling me that I didnt call him on his birthday or when he graduated but I told him that I sent him a message on his birthday but he said you've should've called.Then he started saying that I'm never there for him when he needs me because he told me that a couple of weeks ago he got into a car accident and that I was never there for him.He also started telling me that I never keep my promises that I make to him.Then after all that he tells me I'll still be your friend then he said I'll call you tomorrow.I dont know if he is just trying to make me feel guilty or something he is confusing me.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Do you know what, this guy seems so wrapped up in himself it does not sound as though he would have any time for anyone else in his life, if i were you you have already got over him once so do it again and find someone that that is not so self obsessed.
Take care.xx.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Keep being friends with him for a while.
He doesn't feel the same way toward you.
What he actually feels should become clear to you pretty soon.
If it doesn't become clear, think that he is torn or confused.
Do not feel guilty as you are not the reason of what he feels.
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reader, Lovebunny  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 well.are you sure he didn't feel the same way? anyway either he has feelings for you or he views you as close friend.I don't think he's trying to make uou feel guilty ,i think he just simply didn't understand what was going on. There are two things you can do. You can either forget what happend and just be his friend like before. Or you can just tell him that the reason you have been avoiding him is because you liked or like him ,you might be surprized to find that he actual dose or did like you.good luck.
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