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He cums on me, but he won't pee on me and he's says not comfortable doing it...what's the difference?

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Question - (1 May 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 May 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, This is quite a random question, and I guess some people will find it weird and maybe disgusting too but... My boyfriend loves to cum on my breasts and I love this as well, but one thing I would really like him to do (sometime/long time in the future) is pee on me. He's told me already that he doesn't think it's something he would ever be comfortable doing. It's not something I would break up with him over as I love him a lot, and I would never ever force him into doing anything.

But my question is this~ Both peeing and cumming on a girl I'm assuming is done for a dominance feel, so what's the difference between having his cum on me and not his pee? Just interested in general view points. I've already asked him, and he honestly couldn't come up with an answer :P

Thank you for reading :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2012):

My boyfriend has cummed on different parts of my body. He has even cummed right in my mouth. I loved it. He has a also peed on me, on my face and in my mouth. It is something that I enjoy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012):

Pee smells a lot worse and frankly we've always attributed peeing on someone as degradation just like spitting on someone.

OP he may be more inclined if you shower together and you ask him to have a little tinkle on you then. That's probably the best you can hope for. I had an ex that liked waterplay frankly I found it disgusting but I would do it in the shower while the water was running. I actually kind of enjoyed peeing on her face in the shower because she loved it and it pretty much disappeared straight away so there was no smell of anything like that.

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (2 May 2012):

k_c100 agony auntPee is a way of removing waste from the body, it is full of toxins and waste products from the body. Cum is rather different - it isnt smelly, full of waste etc...it is a substance that is designed to create life, not remove waste!

That is why is it viewed differently by many people - I personally enjoy my boyfriend cumming on me in various places, but I would NEVER want him to pee on me because it is pretty gross in my opinion. It is smelly, and something that should be reserved for the toilet not the bedroom.

It is your fetish, not your boyfriend's and if he is not comfortable doing it then leave it there and dont bring it up again. Some fetishes are best left as a fetish rather than as a reality, and the worst thing you could do is push your boyfriend to do something he doesnt want to do so just leave it alone.

As Flynn 24 said, there is plenty of porn for this fetish so keep it to watching porn and dont take it further.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012):

It's pee. There isn't much other ways I can say it. Most people lump it in the same category as poop.

Look it's your fetish, and its harmless. But it's not his and not one he finds himself comfortable in indulging.

Either way, I'd let it go. Is some odd fetish really worth getting in a tussle over? He probably has a few you would kill yourself before taking part in. That's why they are called fetishes.

Just stick to watching the type of porn that includes peeing, and there is no shortage... it's apparently a popular fetish... and you should be fine.

Flynn 24

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