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writes:Hi, I have been talking to someone for about two months and we became really close, he said he liked me and now changed his mind saying he wanted space, he confuses me. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Skeez +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Give him his space and respect his needs. Its probably hard and you feel as though you may have been a bit used or tagged along, but there could be two possible reasons why he is asking for space.
The reason which I really hope isnt why is maybe he doesnt want you as a girlfriend. You may have become close, but maybe all he wanted in the beginning was friendship, but now feels as though hes gone a little bit too far and wants to back off.
The other reason is becuase hes thinking about possibly asking you out and needs to make some right decisions before asking you.
Keep your chin up lovey. Whatever the reason is, you will come out on top.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (19 March 2008):
 To be honest, all you really should do is respect his decision and give him some space. Maybe he'll come to his senses and decides he definitely wants to be with you.
People can confuse how they feel sometimes and the way you feel confused might be the way he feels too.
Alternatively you could pose this question to him, in an non-threatening manner. Try telling him you're confused and you thought he liked you, see how he responds.
But to be honest, if he is acting this way and is confusing you - give him some space and if there is someone else you like, consider moving on if things don't appear to be working out with this guy.
I hope things work out,
Best of luck,
Miss Kin. x
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