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writes:About 3 year ago, my boyfriend of 5 years became friends with a woman 20 years younger than him. They work for the same apartment management company and live in the same apartment building. He was seen at an outdoor event with his arms around her and I have since seen pics that were taken. He claims they are just good friends. Recently, I was at his place and she knocked and just walked in. When she saw me she left. A few days later, she called him (drunk) and said she couldn't open her bottle of wine. There has been no romance in our relationship for a long time. He still insists there is nothing going on. I am not so sure and am seriously thinking about ending the relationship. Am I right to end the relationhip and get on with my life? I am not a young woman anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 January 2012):
 I agree with KC100... if there is no romance and you are not happy why do you stay?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 January 2012):
 Am I right to end the relationhip and get on with my life?
In a word: Yes....
Good luck.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (10 January 2012):
 Regardless of this other woman - if there is no romance and you are not happy then you would be right to end the relationship for those reasons alone, never mind their inappropriate behaviour.
I think you should have one last talk to him and lay it all down on the line. Tell him how you feel - that you are not comfortable with their friendship as they are too close, especially for a man who is supposed to be in a comitted relationship. Tell him you are unhappy with the lack of romance and you are considering leaving.
See what he has to say to all this - if he knows how serious you are about leaving then maybe he will change, maybe he will come clean about this other woman - or maybe he will act like he doesnt really care in which case you have your answer and you can just leave.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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