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writes: I had a "friends with benefits" type thing, a while ago and ended up liking him (which was stupid). That ended and he got a girlfriend but told me he wanted to stay "friends". I agreed even though I hated it. I didn't talk to him as much because it was too hard. A few months into his relationship he starts texting and flirting with me like we used to before. I told him it wasn't fair and that I thought he said he wanted to be friends. He said he does but he "just can't say no" to me. He lives in another town (that was his excuse for us not being able to have anything more than a FWB thing) but was visiting his home town (mine also) and asked if I wanted to stay over at his place. I said "no" and after that he was kind of off with me. I'm seeing someone else now and he said something like "wouldn't want to upset your boyfriend would we"? in a sarcastic way.Now that i'm seeing some he asks who he is, what he does, what is he like, is he better than him. Why is he being like this? He chose to get a girlfriend so why does he want to sleep with me? This behaviour of his has been going on for months now. I told him to back off and he has stopped the flirting but he still keeps asking about the guy i'm seeing.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 This post sounds mighty familar. This is you too no?? http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-fwb-is-dating-someone-else-but-still.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): He's insecure that's all. he feels all manly when he has a gf and the prospect of getting some on the side, but his ego gets bruised if YOU have someone too.
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