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writes:So here's the case. My boyfriend and I have already been dating for almost 7months, actually it's our monthsary tomorrow. He has been with his ex for almost 4 years, though within that 4 years he's constantly cheating with that girl.I always ask him if he really loves me, and without hesitant he would say yes. But my boyfriend still communicates with his ex through text, and his ex also calls him. And they even call each other "baby". I keep on reminding my boyfriend not to talk with that girl, but he'll just say yes, then after that I will see his phone having texts from that girl.Every time I open the topic regarding that girl he just gets angry and impatient, he'll just say that "what else do you want, we're always together. my ex and i are just friends, nothing more."i love my boyfriend, but what can i do? i think he's just cheating on me, hay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Please leave this guy and spare yourself the heartache....I have been in this situation and it can be horrible if he's lead you on for so long and just leaves you for his ex...like my guy did...but that was my chance to leave becuase they will be back...and when they come you don't take them...do you want to be second best to him always while its obvious that he cares about his ex...please let him go..and if he really loves you he will be back with you free of your ex...for now it just seems as if he is using you until his ex lets him back into her life...please GO!!!!
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reader, alilydn  +, writes (22 October 2008):
run for the hills as quick as you can before your heart is broken. take it from someone who knows been there done that one, he will say anything he wants you to hear until he makes his mind up, are you willing to take the chance that it could be you? go with your head not your heart, you know whats really going on, what does your gut instinct say?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): go go go as quick as you can and save yourself los of heartache, take it from one who knows and who has been there. He will have you believe anything he wants you to beleive, to the point where you start questioning yourself, you know whats really going on follow your gut instinct.
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