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*ballchick
writes:I am in love with this guy and as you can see from previous posts things have been rocky at best but i am in love with him. Recently i have gotton very close to his family and i thought that things were going very well...we are just dating not going out because we are both going off to college. Today i found out that he had sex with a girl at a party when he was drunk...i am devastated ....what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): f*** that a guy can do something stupid but if it happened once and he doesnt do it again give the man a break....you women dont have a pair so you dont think like we do ..its like a dog running around with that pink thing hanging out humping anything he see's if he isnt thinking about that one girl.... but until he learns the hard way he will actually think... give him a fuckin chance!... u said you love him
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reader, bballchick +, writes (25 August 2007):
bballchick is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni guess i should clarify...he had sex with her in June of thsis year and things have been really great for us the last two monthes...although we are saying we are not exclusive we have been since that time......he said he was sorry that it happened but to be honest he didn't even need to say that cuz we were not together
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 From what I've seen someone who cheats once, drunk or will do it again.Everyone I know who cheats on their bf/gf when they're drunk does it sober to. If he cares tell him to stop and he will, if not you can do better.^Thats easier said than done though, I've got people telling me the same thing but I still don't want to leave the girl I'm with.Cheaters f'ing suck.
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reader, bballchick +, writes (25 August 2007):
bballchick is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou are probably right...i didn't just meet the parents we have been friends for awhile....i guess i want to believe that he had sex cuz he was drunk and not for any other reason...
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reader, lildeesbg +, writes (25 August 2007):
 RED flag being waved all over! Girl you gotta let this guy go. I know it is sooooo hard to do, but you have to have some self worth. Think about it what is actually going good for you two right now? You cant committ cause you are both off to college, things are rocky, and he had SEX with someone other then you!... Obviously right now timing isn't there!I know meeting the family is a big step, and to us girls and guys who really really like a person meeting the parents means sooo much, but for HIM it didn't. Look, people make mistakes! and technically you two aren't exclusive but when are you going to draw the line? When can you tell yourself enough is enough. College is going to be an exciting experience for you. So look forward to meeting new people, and starting a new for yourself.~dee
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): I think u should let him go and be friends for now. i don't know about u but i have been drunk and i still know everything that is going on. being intoxicated can make u more comfortable with doing something that u already want to do sometimes so he proably wasn't ready to commit in the first place. i would suggest u to stay friends for the time being
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