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anonymous
writes:me and him had relationship for 3months..we met at church.he had a affair with another girl from same school.immediately i broke out with him through text message.he said sorry,let's talk about this,clingy for few daysfirst i tried to ignored all of these but end up talk to him on phone.i try to keep my cool..reminded myself not to cry but end up cried..he said sorry but i can hear him gigglingbehind the phone.now he's happy that he hurt me,made fun of me through net,think of me as loser who treat his game seriously.i'm not going to change the church,cuz being weak makes him more happy.but how can i show him that i'm fine and happy without him?do i have to face him when he sees me at church?i wouldn't pose this question if only i hadn't cry.give many answer as possible please~~
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reader, Carrot2000  +, writes (16 March 2010):
 Good for you! He removed you because it bothered him that you were not upset when he saw you at mass, and he thinks he can hurt you by de-friending. Are you on Facebook? Block him from accessing your profile. This way he can't view your activity if you have mutual friends--he won't be able to read your posts or view your pictures. This will REALLY let him know that you don't care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for good advice everyone.yesterday i did what you guys told,he was smiling but i could see he's moody till the end of mass.at evening he removed me from his friend list on net.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (13 March 2010):
Guys like this like to see you sad, they like to see you hurt and crying. Don't give him the satisfaction! First, you walk into church with your head held high. You have no reason to be embarrassed; he's a clown and not worth your emotions. Walk around and laugh and talk to people as you normally would, even if you don't feel like it. Act as if he doesn't matter, but don't go out of your way to ignore him; when you see him, say "hello" very pleasantly and keep walking. It will drive him insane that you are not concerned about him and that you are happy.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 its perfectly normal to cry when finding out that someone you was with cheated on you but i wouldnt give this guy the time of day he obviously doesnt care about your feelings and isnt sorry for what he has done i wouldnt change your church just try and stay clear of any further contact with this guy and act happy try and move on and then he might just realise how much of a idiot he was
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