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writes:i have been seeing my boyfriend for 9 years now he as all ways been a kind and caring person but last december he cheated on me 2 days after he came and told me.i could not believe what he had done so i kicked him out and we finished for about a month.i was heart broken and when i asked him why he did it he said she payed him atention and that he had fell out of love with me but what i did not under stand was that he never spoke to me about it.after a month we got back together to see if things would work and i fell pregnant he was not happy at first but now he says he is ok with it we all ready have a son together so he noes what to espected.i love him very much and he says he loves me but i dont trust him any more i always check where he is and what he is up to i hate feeling like this and i some time sit and cry what should i do to get over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2010): Look this its obvious to anybody with half a brain that your boyfriend doesnt love you anymore! I'm sorry but you don't just fall out of love with someone and then fall right back in. Plus if my girlfriend of 9 years fell pregnant with my son id be over the moon with joy not just ''ok'' with the situation. Sorry to say but this relationship screwed up big time!
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reader, Problem.helper  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 i'm sorry you can't do anything he need to earn your trust back and you should tell him. My brother did it and i know his wife and i m godfather to their kid. He got a beat from me because this is unexpectable. I know that you love him and you got a kid together but tell him that or it will eat you alive. My brother did earn her trust back because he loved her even more than before and started to better husband and father. he need to be sorry not you
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reader, Ne'cee +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 yrs and he cheated. Now we are back together and I still have those trust issues. I do explain to him that if he wants to be with me, he has to tolerate it until I am comfortable enough to not feel this way. He is the reason for the season. You are reacting to his actions. He should understand that he is the reason you feel like this and should do every thing possible to PROVE himself to you. You basically have to start over from the beginning.
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