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writes:Hello, I'm a freshman at high school, and um... how do I put this... Ok, so I'm bi (or gay, i'm not sure which one) and I was interested in this guy in my P.E. class. Well anyways, so after observing him for about 3 to 4 months I decided to tell him that I like him, so on Valentines Day I sent him a package with a love letter that said that I love him, a friendship bracelet, a key necklace, and a box of chocolates. And later on, he told me to go check my locker, so I went and the friendship bracelet was returned along with a note that read, "Don't ever send me anything again". So I was like 0_0... and so I just basically went on with life and now I enrolled in volleyball at school and was practicing, when he comes in about a week later and joins too. I'm not sure if it's a coincidence or something but I don't know, and he also acts nice to me too, and he doesn't try avoiding me or anything, and he also occasionally gives me the look (I think). Could it possibly be that he actually likes me? Come to think of it, I put his present in a vacant locker near his and slipped a note that said check that locker. So could it be that his friends saw it too so he acted as if he didn't like me because of what other people might think of him? I don't even know, but since he didn't return me the love letter or the key necklace, nor the bag, does it mean that he has it and is it a clue that he likes me? I don't even know... if someone could possibly tell me what I should or could do, that would be awesome, cause it's hard for me to be so near him, yet I can't even talk to him or anything... btw here's what I know about himhe's Costa Ricanhe plays soccerhe's never been to snowhe kicks very well. Reply to this Question
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (4 March 2011):
Hi there. You can't come right out and just ask him how he feels towards you.
The only thing you can do, is to just be friendly towards him whenever you happen to see each other, and just see how he acts towards you.
Then over time, it will become clear by how your friendship develops - or if it doesn't.
As he seems to be friendly towards you, that is a positive sign. However, you can't push it for more to happen. That will take some time.
There is no hurry for a relationship to happen just yet, you need to be friends first anyway. Find out how you actually get along, things you have in common with each other, lifestyles etc. Then go from there.
For any relationship to develop, it does take time.
As to his being gay, bi or whatever, you are not really going to get to know this, until you get to know him better and at least build some kind of rapport with him.
He may not really be sure himself, just yet.
Only time will tell.
Take care and best wishes.
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