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writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 6 months and we haven't had sex yet. At the beginning of the relationship he had a problem with getting an erection so we decided to leave the sex issue for a while and concentrate on the emotional aspect of our relationship.For a while, he's been doing things like going down on me or using his hands to pleasure me. I feel quite selfish allowing him to do this to me when I can't do anything back because of his erection problem. He did say he would get some help for but I haven't heard from about it since so I don't think he has.I feel like it's and all or nothing situation here. I really want to have sex with him because we love each other dearly and I feel we're missing out on something that will bring us even closer than we already are. Neither of us have said it but it's quite obvious we're not going to have sex anytime soon so should I put a stop to everything else sexual that we're doing? I don't want him to resent me for not giving him as much pleasure as he's giving me.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (29 July 2007):
 There's really no reason for him to be going through this in this century, try cialis or viagra. Only take a half of the pill, a whole one might be too much. I call it a recreational drug, because when you want to have sex for a long time. I mean a long time, it's great.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 This happens so often with men especially in fairly new relationships, and he has failed to become erect for whatever reason early on the fear of it happening again will probably contribute to the fact it has been happening since.
If you really love him and want to help him with this i think the best thing to do is try and get him to go and see his doctor, if you are happy to do it tell him that you will go with him.
It's more than likely to be pyschological, so he may need some counselling to get through this but sometimes it could be down to something else so his best bet is definately the doctor.
Take care.xx.
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