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36-40,
*sabella1987
writes:I've been with him for 2 years and we broke up for stupid reason.He listen to his family, his family give him wrong advice me.Cause they don't like me.We fight everyday. So,I left him but I still miss him and I love him. I called him and tell him get away from your family and we can be together and happy long life. He don't want to leave his family.Especilly his parents. He is 30 years old.I am 21.I left my family behind for him. Why he can't do that.He said his family told him I want to go farway from his family because I want to control him. its not like that.I explain to him but I don't listen. I don't know what to do.I can't move on. I don't know how i can forget him.I have no friend to talk about this.(I used to have friend but he don't like it so I don't connect to them anymore.I don't know where they are now) only in here.He is my best friend, my love and everything. Please help what I should do to get over this hurt things inside my heart. I am so broken heart. he is my frist love.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 I feel so sorry for you. You have trusted, and you have given up stuff. Now you are left alone.
Although this sounds hard, it is an opportunity and a test for you as a person. You have to be strong. You have to regain your independence. Hold your head up and don't let this ruin the rest of your life.
You won't believe it at the moment but there is someone better for you. You have to let this go so that the new thing can happen in you life.
Take heart - good things are on the way.
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