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writes: Dear Cupid,I have been with my ex for 1 year and 5 months; however two months ago he broke up with me because he said we had nothing in common and that we argued too much. Although this was true, I am very heart-broken. We argued a lot because of boredom. We hardly did anything in the relationship. All we did was watch t.v. in his bedroom and this was EVERY weekend. Even though I was bored, I didn't want to lose him because he was such a nice and sensitive guy. The relationship got even worse because I started to get mad at petty stuff, it was horrible. He also said to find someone better than him, and he also said that he knows that he is gonna regret breaking up with me. Then why do it? I'm confused. Is it someone else? Does he feel guilty about something? I'm confused.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (6 March 2006):
 He doesn't sound like he wanted to be in a relationship. It seems that you were together out of habit more than anything else.
The way you describe the relationship, you sound like an old married couple. You are in need of a relationship with someone who is loving, caring and thoughtful. And instead you are settling for an ignorant dead beat, who is neglecting you....just so you can be in a relationship.
This guy is right about one thing, he doesn't deserve you. I don't know if he will regret it, it seems he enjoys being bored. So let him have his TV and go out and enjoy your life, and someone will come along who truly appreciates you.
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