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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I broke up with my boyfriend of one year in May. He says we broke up because it was my fault, I was being unfaithful, and I had let him down so many times. He keeps saying that he just wants to be friends but each time we talk, all we do is we start fighting again. I still want to be with him, and, I don't know, somehow I get the feeling he still wants to be with me. He blames everything on me. Is he hiding something? Or does he really never want to be with me again?
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reader, HeartBlossom +, writes (4 December 2007):
If you agree with what he says about your faithfulness and reliability, then you need to take some time off from relationships with boys and sort things out about yourself--how you communicate, what kind of woman you want to be, etc. On the other hand, maybe he's just jerking your chain and making selfish or callous comments in these arguments you're having. There's really not enough information in your question for us to know. I would guess it's a little of both and that you should chalk this up as a learning experience.
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