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anonymous
writes:this guy/friend i used to sleep with calls me and hes like please come see me..so i go over there were making out hugging holding blah blah i mean its obvious he likes me cuz he told me he cared about me and he thought i was so beautiful n stuff right..(i mean like before i met my ex,me n him slept together on and off for 3 years..and he cried his eyes out to me about wanting to be with me and to break up with my bf) (and yes i have grown to love him also)...anyways after me n him are all over each other he calls a girl over to his house and he starts making out wit her and like hes looking at me the whole time with this facial expression like ha ha or some shit and takes her back to his room to sleep with her...i dont get it..why would he do that..call me over and then get another girl over there after i get there that was just weird..i need help i dont understand why..someone pleasee help me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): Wow, seriously...this guy is a piece of s^*t....loose him, the faster the better. Then go get yourself a book on how to build self-esteem so that you never go out with a loser like that again!
BTW, just because he said he likes you, doesn't mean a thing. Guys like that learn what to say to girls to get them to do what they want, he was probably telling the other girl the same damn thing! Plus guys aren't near as picky when it comes to the definition of beauty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): i would agree with the 2 posts before, but i would also say, that this is really weird, and as you say you know him for a while and he was not as crazy, the question is why would he want you to see him making out with that other girl?
if you never loved this guy, just leave him for ever, and never talk to him again, but if u did love him, he might wanted to send you some kind of message witch we don't understand what, and it would be good that you confront him and ask him in his face: if you don't want me, why did you call me here?, if you do want me, why did you do it?, now depends what good answer he will give you (if there is any), and if he doesn't give a really good answer, just leave this guy, even u love him, because sooner or later he will do it again to you.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (12 October 2009):
Oh my God, forget why, besides he's a total asshole. Yes, I agree delete him from everything. Do not show him that you're jealous, sad, or anything--that's what he wants. What a dick, seriously do not talk to him ever!
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